measurements of love
When you begin to call someone, my boyfriend or my girlfriend, the next word that will most likely to come from you, would be, 'I Love You'. Or sometimes you do not even need to have a partner and when meeting a foreigner, you probably had ask, "So,how do you say I Love You in your language"
Why not use it? The other person hearing it will show a million dollar smile no matter how grumpy a person he/she is and by that, it makes us feel good. My partner is smiling and so, life is good. I am guilty of charged! I could not even count the number of times where I've declared I love you to someone before i know what it really means. It is all too late now, words that came out could never be taken back, could it?
Well, as part of the study at the University of Life, a module which nobody would be exempted, the love story! When I was in France, one of the first few words that was passed on to me was, 'L'histoire amour n'est pas facille' I used to agree with that and lived by it. How can love story be easy? Putting two person frmo two different world together under the same roof. Dont be bite on our tongue sometimes? The pain and frustration that we have when it happened. How stupid to bite on your own tongue and yet, we do that.
I love you. You are the most amazing thing in my life. I love you for eternity. Lines that were declared. One morning, wake up from sleep, perhaps from the right side or the left, and you decide that you stopped to love the person whom you've once declared that you love. But, how do you know that? Is there a termometer within you to measure that you love this person because the reading on that day is X? What are the factors that causes the reading of the 'termometer'? Try to put yourself in your partner's shoes, if you who have such termometer, are still unable to tell the factors taken in, how more can they understand. So, am i saying, it is wrong to declare your love? NO! but, i would say that it is good to love freely.
Who says that love story has to be difficult. It may seem to be difficult but it is only if you choose for it to be. It is such a simple story and for the very same reason that we are on this earth. A Love story. Great love that our creator has for us and the same kidn of love that we'll need to love others around us. Love will not die. Love needs to be nurtured. If it goes unattended, it will be weak and hardened..and possibly coma, but it will not die. It is possible to wake up one day and take its duty again, only if you allow it to. If walls are to be built aroudn yourself to avoid falling into the 'difficult love story' then, you have my deepest sympathy because you will miss out the greatest thing in life -L O V E.
I may sound as if a little guru for love or Dr Love. Dont be fooled. I am just like anyone else who has to gone and is still going through Univerity of Life and Love story is still part of the module being taken. Although many questions unanswered but I do know that love lives for eternity. It requires some vacinations and antibiotics to live on so that it would be immune to the worldly disease. The vacinatiosn available is willingless to learn, to accept, humilty and patience. No one would ever live up to your expectation if you cant meet your own's expectation. They are human afterall and you were attracted to them because of who they were at the begining. How can he/she be like your someone you knew? Do you really want them to?
Before you decide that you no longer love someone, do think again. Were you honest enough when you first declared your love. Would you be brave to go through storms(which may or may not come) to enjoy the view of sunrise and sunset, or would you be a coward to retreat the declaration or even worse, never dare to take the step of declaration. which of it is you?
Why not use it? The other person hearing it will show a million dollar smile no matter how grumpy a person he/she is and by that, it makes us feel good. My partner is smiling and so, life is good. I am guilty of charged! I could not even count the number of times where I've declared I love you to someone before i know what it really means. It is all too late now, words that came out could never be taken back, could it?
Well, as part of the study at the University of Life, a module which nobody would be exempted, the love story! When I was in France, one of the first few words that was passed on to me was, 'L'histoire amour n'est pas facille' I used to agree with that and lived by it. How can love story be easy? Putting two person frmo two different world together under the same roof. Dont be bite on our tongue sometimes? The pain and frustration that we have when it happened. How stupid to bite on your own tongue and yet, we do that.
I love you. You are the most amazing thing in my life. I love you for eternity. Lines that were declared. One morning, wake up from sleep, perhaps from the right side or the left, and you decide that you stopped to love the person whom you've once declared that you love. But, how do you know that? Is there a termometer within you to measure that you love this person because the reading on that day is X? What are the factors that causes the reading of the 'termometer'? Try to put yourself in your partner's shoes, if you who have such termometer, are still unable to tell the factors taken in, how more can they understand. So, am i saying, it is wrong to declare your love? NO! but, i would say that it is good to love freely.
Who says that love story has to be difficult. It may seem to be difficult but it is only if you choose for it to be. It is such a simple story and for the very same reason that we are on this earth. A Love story. Great love that our creator has for us and the same kidn of love that we'll need to love others around us. Love will not die. Love needs to be nurtured. If it goes unattended, it will be weak and hardened..and possibly coma, but it will not die. It is possible to wake up one day and take its duty again, only if you allow it to. If walls are to be built aroudn yourself to avoid falling into the 'difficult love story' then, you have my deepest sympathy because you will miss out the greatest thing in life -L O V E.
I may sound as if a little guru for love or Dr Love. Dont be fooled. I am just like anyone else who has to gone and is still going through Univerity of Life and Love story is still part of the module being taken. Although many questions unanswered but I do know that love lives for eternity. It requires some vacinations and antibiotics to live on so that it would be immune to the worldly disease. The vacinatiosn available is willingless to learn, to accept, humilty and patience. No one would ever live up to your expectation if you cant meet your own's expectation. They are human afterall and you were attracted to them because of who they were at the begining. How can he/she be like your someone you knew? Do you really want them to?
Before you decide that you no longer love someone, do think again. Were you honest enough when you first declared your love. Would you be brave to go through storms(which may or may not come) to enjoy the view of sunrise and sunset, or would you be a coward to retreat the declaration or even worse, never dare to take the step of declaration. which of it is you?
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