new mates

frequent entry to this site, would indicate some well occupied mind, with many processing involved and here comes the result. mind reading, learning a person through their behavoir is like a second life to me. just like my primary life, wouldnt say there has been much success. longer routes been chosen to reach my destination. why oh why...and surprisingly (or not) the same with my second life.

Trust is most crucial to someone with great insecurity..however, it is the same element that is laid on the ground to cause a little stumble and falls. Have you walked into a room, and been introduced to someone. Instantly, your head is telling you that that person is a nice guy, can be trusted and worth spending the next hour with. So, you sit down and have the common chat..in your own special way of communicaton. Next, you move on to have some activities together and after that, it just confirms your pre-judgement on that person. Truly indeed, he's the person whom you feel comfortable with is as you thought. Suddenly, CRASH!!! What now? Did you hear the right thing from the person's mouth...and before you realize it, your new found mate disappears from your life....disappointment....why, how, what, you asked yourself. Only to be left with no answers to any of your questions. This just reminds me of the song by All Saints, Never Ever...

What would be the best approach when meeting someone. Is there anyone out there who would really be who they are as presented. Is it that we have set a high (impractical) expectation from others?

Been always known to be a contraction; hence come the idea that still hope in meeting the right person who would nto disappoint but at the time, the question, do they really exist? Flooded by hope to meet and not be disappoointed before heart turns hard.