are you here?

The sun is shining on you, and you have someone close to you to share your life. But, ever wonder why was he/she chosen? Few hours of flirtings, eye-contacts, chemical reaction...et bang!!! Love is in the air!!

Hot air soon become cold and they disappear. Then you find yourself asking, "is there anyone better at the pub down the road tonight?" So, you went. Was a Friday night, beautiful people in their best clothes (or least clothes on for someone with great assets), all smiles and seems like all fun. In your head, you thought to yourself, "Dont they look better than who i have at home? Man, i feel good here..." So, you start to jump from a group to another, finding the most interesting people to spend the evening with. Good fun and time to go home. While walking home, you decide, well, my partner at home does not suit me. We have different ideology, different goals, (if there is any!), we are just so different. One day, our relationship will come to an end.

Back at home, your partner sitting at on the couch waiting for your return. Exchanged greetings and life returned to routine. HAve you ever find yourself returning to your partner because there was nobody else available to you? It is just so common for anyone to think, if two people is having fun in life, why bother? But, how long would this fun last? When you finally do meet someone who is interested in you, then you call it a quit. Does it even sound logical to you?

I would diagnosed these "lovers patients" as weak. Unable to stand alone, unable to bear to live a single life. What a shame!