Fight for what you want

As most of you know, there is still some big life lessons that i need to learn. That is, to learn to put myself first. Being brought up in an asian culture, putting onself first is not realy encouraged, especially under the guidance of the super woman who is constantly busy for others. With that, it has become my character.

But, thanks to all reminders! Well, one has to admit that being stupid is not just being ignorant. It is more like, knowing something and yet doign it. How many times have we found ourselves in situations where we have sworn never to be in. I am guilty of charged!! No worries, who doesnt make mistake. Afterall, life is learning as I wasw told.

My biggest learning chapter this time is - Fight for what you want. Thank you for such words for they literally woke me up from my slumber life. It was nice weather, warm and hence, romance filled the air. Almost so clouded the whole of my life! Dont you just have to appreciate 4 seasons sometimes. Once all the warmth is over, comes a little chill, and then you see things differently.

So, this is not new lesson. But, this is new period of life where you would have to put yourself first. Instead of fighting for things to happen, let things fight for you! If it (fight for what you want) works, it surely would for others too. Hence, give people the chance. As said, if anyone have no desire to fight, the desire can never be cultivated. So, why waste time. Move ON!

Easy as it sounds...but difficult to be done. I am sure!! Do not anticipate good times ahead. Can see all tears and heartaches, but that is life. It always take two to make a clap. Basic learning which every toddler understands. To make things happen, do your part and let others work on it too! You always have limits in life.