Next chapter
Two days ago, I touched down at Prague airport again, and it marks the next chapter of life adventure. About 11 months ago, here I was for the very first time in my life, with teary eyes and full of regrets. Observing the full moon in the cold wintry night, and remembering some words from a close friend, "you have a history ahead of you, write the ending for it with your life"
Along with those words, I've soon lost myself in this city of madness. Fortunately, to be found again with new wonders, who marked not only a chapter of my life but also who had added fragrance to my soul.
Some of you who might already know me well enough, is aware that, that life issues are no stranger to me. Towards the end of 20s, the common question that everyone would ask or consider about is, marriage. Tying the knot with someone we think we are in love with so that we can spend more time together and more official moments together. At some point, it has become the passport to have children for me. A family, is known to be the basic instituition for childre to grow in. However as time comes closer, am beginign to question, if it is really true. Why would a family be important for a child's growth. How about, having children without a family? Who would provide support to you and your offspring during the low days?
Would it be sufficient for one partner to shower all loves and care to a child?
Along with those words, I've soon lost myself in this city of madness. Fortunately, to be found again with new wonders, who marked not only a chapter of my life but also who had added fragrance to my soul.
Some of you who might already know me well enough, is aware that, that life issues are no stranger to me. Towards the end of 20s, the common question that everyone would ask or consider about is, marriage. Tying the knot with someone we think we are in love with so that we can spend more time together and more official moments together. At some point, it has become the passport to have children for me. A family, is known to be the basic instituition for childre to grow in. However as time comes closer, am beginign to question, if it is really true. Why would a family be important for a child's growth. How about, having children without a family? Who would provide support to you and your offspring during the low days?
Would it be sufficient for one partner to shower all loves and care to a child?
posted by Jeannie at 9:47 pm
2 Comments:
Babe, I think you will still need a man to make babies. Most preferably a man that sticks by you and wants to have his children with you, not some random guy whose sperms you choose at the sperm bank for your own reproduction. So if you find that guy and decide to have kids with him, that in itself forms the base for a family into which your kids are born. Simple as that.
Thanks for your wise words. I believe i have found the man, but certainties if he'll stick around, is quite unclear. Well, just one of the insecurities i have in them. Something to ponder. :D
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